okay, been a week since I last blogged. Was gonna write one friday, but did not get a chance to finish it, adn now I don't think I'll post that one. But I got a good question for all my frequent readers again.
So here is the question: Do you think there is anything wrong with living with someone of the opposite sex? OR something even more personal, would you live with someone of the opposite sex?
I myself have been thinking of this question a lot, because I am going through this situation. My stand is I don't think there is anything wrong with living with someone of the opposite sex. I don't think it's morally wrong, or anything. However, I do think it's not always the most suggestable idea.
So here are some different scenarios. If one were to live with someone of the opposite sex, I would think the best case scenario is there to be at least three people living there. This will make temptation a little less I think. So for me, I don't think it's such a horrible idea to live with two girls or something.
True, I do believe it's a situation that if avoidable, should do so. this is because you don't want to put yourself in a situation that is hard for you, or hard for others. No matter how much you say, as a guy, you will be tempted. Now the reason I say livign with two girls is not as bad, is because with three people, anything happening is not as likely because of the third person. Some people may call this the "Three's company" situation, as a result of the 80s show Three Company with Suzanne Sommers.
But then what about one guy, one girl living together?
This situation is even more touchy. I am not too sure what my view of this is. But if one is quite a number of years older, i do not find it as bad, but if your around the same age, it's a little more interesting topic.
Now as much as I think living with someone of the oposite sex should be avoided, I also think sometimes circumstances make it necessary, and things should/can be worked out. But still you think, do you want to put yourself in that situation? Do you think you are old enough, and mature enough to handle this situation?
I think it usually all comes down to how mature you are as a person. Because if you don't think you can handle yourself, then you probably don't want to put yourself in that situation. However, even if you think you can, you should still reconsider and think about it, because you never know.
End result, I still don't think it's wrong to live with someone of the opposite sex, in any numbers, but one should be careful before doing so. Now what do you think?
Monday, July 14, 2003
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