Friday, November 01, 2002

Marriage
I have been thinking of this recently as well. I think it's because one of my cousin's just got married last weekend and it's gotten me thinking. She is the first of my cousin's to get married, so this means we're all wondering whose next?

I have been thinking of myself, and I wonder when I'll get married. I look at myself, and I'm 21 now. Obviously this is way too young to get married, so for all you girls out there, I'm gonna turn you down if someone proposes to me. hahahaha. I think I want to get married before I am 28, or when I am 28. I don't want to get married too late. But I figure, if all things work out, by then I should be out of school for a while, working for a while, and being relatively stable with my money.

But I think by the time I turn 30, it seems kind of late. I look at some of the people I know who are in their 30s and I can't believe how many people bother them about getting married. From parents to friends, everyone is always talking about it."When you gonna getmarried?", "Have you been seeing anybody?", "Your still not married?" These questions I suspect can get really annoying, I don't want to go through it.

I think I want to get married by 28, because it's still a while from now that I can find my somebody. But it's not too long either, that I will have to wait a long time. Cause once you hit the big 3-0, you'll never stop hearing about it.

Maybe I'm thinking too far, I tend to do that to myself, think about the future too much. I always think, "oh, in the future, I can....". Maybe I should worry about right now first.

I originally wrote this blog and the previous one together, but I figured I'd separate them because they really are two different things.

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